Bad situations in life usually begin with a relationship. Conflict with a co-worker, a bad marriage, disrespectful children or even money problems involve you and/or at least one other person. Changing a bad situation is not always simple. It involves confronting deep inner fears and taking action. Most people are familiar with the concept of self-change for better results. But, is that really what is happening? Deciding to change does not mean other people to follow your lead. Making an effort to be nice to co-worker, does not require the other person's participation. Changing yourself means just that, change without any expectation or participation from others. There is nothing wrong with hoping things get better, but the other person or people may not have the same desires.
Focusing on self-change means creating boundaries, making construction decisions and taking a NEW direction. Let's really be Empowered by expecting the best out of ourselves without any expectations from others.
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