Sunday, July 18, 2010

Transcendence: Stop my Pain and Suffering!


Maya Angelou's poem "And Still I Rise" is a colorful voice used by the experience of transcendence. This poetry articulates the suffering of life's injustices and demonstrates the will of the soul to be free. Human spirituality is expressed in a person's ability to contribute to the world around him. A person finds the ability to touch their world in many ways: parenting, teaching, working, entrepreneurship, learning, being someones child, spouse, sibling, care taker, provider, activist, musician or writer and the list is endless. These offerings to the world are continually changing as life reveals its requirements of participation. Suffering occurs when a person is forced to make unwanted changes in their roles. Death, terminal illness, job loss, family conflict, abuse and other painful occurrences are the events that cause crisis and the awaking of transcendence.


Transcendence is an available means to spiritual well-being. It happens at the point of acceptance and the person's willful participation in their reorganized life role. Eastern religions such as Buddhism, attain transcendence through the denial of self and meditation. A person is to relinquish himself of feeling emotions and detach from the world. This includes non-attachment in relationships and to material possessions (Hanson 2008). Western traditions such as Christianity find transcendence through morality, worship and prayer. Emotions are not denied in western traditions but they are considered unreliable for making responsible decisions. People practicing western religions have doctrinal responsibilities to their relationships which bring blessings into the lives of the obedient (Yount 2009). These are of course very broad descriptions and insights into Eastern and Western religious ideologies. They are not meant to be exhaustive in this context.  Both religions seek to find meaning in suffering and use certain practices to overcome suffering and acquire transcendence.

Real Life Applications

Making meaning out of the death of a loved one, the pain of broken relationships or being treated unfairly is the beginning of transcending your soul to a more enlightened or mature place.  On your path of meaning making you may experience sadness, anger, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, fatigue, helplessness, shock, yearning, relief, numbness, disbelief, confusion, preoccupation, social withdrawal, dreams, avoidance and crying.  You are not crazy, you are human and we feel these experiences when our sense of well-being is threatened or taken away (Worden 2009).  One of the most effective ways to work through your suffering is artistic self expression.  It is an avenue for your soul's cry.  You can keep a journal of your feelings, scrap booking, singing inspirational music, art, gardening, dancing and other artistic activities.  Set aside some daily time to inventory your thoughts and feelings, you have feelings and accepting them is accepting yourself.  There are not any right or wrong feelings they just exist within you. This daily time limit will help you manage preoccupation. Take care of yourself i.e. get your hair cut, have a massage or a manicure (Rosenberg 2009).  Most importantly be gentle with yourself.  You are not perfect and will make mistakes in this journey called life.  Use some good old fashioned forgiveness and keep going.  Your on your way to transcendence and movement beyond your pain.  God Bless You and Amen.

Here is some additional readings on the subject of transcendence:


















Hanson, J. (2008). Searching for the Power-I: Nietzsche and Nirvana. Asian Philosophy, 18(3), 231-244. doi:10.1080/09552360802440017.

Harris, H. (2008). Growing While Going: Spiritual Formation at the End of Life. Journal of Religion, Spirituality & Aging, 20(3), 227-245. Retrieved from Academic Search Complete database.

Rosenberg, R. (2009). LONERGAN ON THE TRANSCENDENT ORIENTATION OF ART. Renascence, 61(3), 141-152. Retrieved from Academic Search Complete database.

Vis, J., & Boynton, H. (2008). Spirituality and Transcendent Meaning Making: Possibilities for Enhancing Post traumatic Growth. Journal of Religion & Spirituality in Social Work, 27(1/2), 69-86. doi:10.1080/15426430802113814.

Worden, William J. (2009). Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy, A Handbook for the Mental Health Practitioner, forth edition. New York, NY: Springer Publishing Company, LLC.

Yount, W. (2009). An Evangelical View of Transcendence and Senior Adult Attitudes. Journal of Religion, Spirituality & Aging, 21(1/2), 88-103. doi:10.1080/15528030802265387.

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Ted Haggard's Response


Mr. Ted Haggard has respectfully declined to posting or commenting on "Ted Haggard is Living His Dream, Are You?"  Thank you Mr. Haggard for responding to my request.

Chaplain Donna Ware to tedhaggard7
Jul 11 (3 days ago)
Dear Mr. Haggard,
I think it is wonderful that you have found the courage to pursue your dreams, in spite of your current circumstances and past mistakes. I'm following my dreams and I know the challenges this presents from many different directions. I just recently started a blog and I used you as the inspirational subject. It is titled: Ted Haggard is Living His Dream, Are You? I hope that you have an opportunity to read my post and offer your comments, I would treasure this as well as my readers. The blog is located at: www.empoweredpeace.org/ I would love to have you follow my blog.
Thank you,
Chaplain Donna Ware

tedhaggard7@aol.com to me (Chaplain Donna Ware)

12:02 PM (4 hours ago)

I read the blog and decided not to post it or to comment.
Ted Haggard, Sr. Pastor
St. James Church
Colorado Springs, CO

I will keep you apprised of any further updates.  God Bless You and Amen.

Why I Stayed: This book was written by the wife of Ted Haggard.  She shares her side of the story.
I Had to Say Something: The Art of Ted Haggard's Fall: This book was written by the male prostitute of Haggard's scandal. 
                                        




Sunday, July 11, 2010

Ted Haggard is Living His Dream, Are You?

Ted Haggard is starting a new church.  He is the former pastor of mega church, New Life Church and the former chief of the National Association of Evangelicals.  Haggard confessed to participating in sexual activities with a male prostitute and to ingesting illegal drugs.  His separation from these organizations in 2006, was devastating to many conservative evangelicals.

Ted Haggard has made a controversial decision to start another church.  Millions of people across the nation are discussing their feelings and opinions about this event.  Most of these discussions are addressing the absolute questions of right or wrong, truth or lie, sinner or forgiven, yes or no.  Despite your personal views or religious affiliation there is a man tending to his own spirituality.  Haggard has made a decision to participate in his purpose.  His experience is filled with many different forces.  He has to contend with opposing forces, supportive forces and lingering indifference to live out the dream in his heart.

Many of you are struggling with decisions that will change your life and the life of others around you.  You are trying to make the best choices from your own limited perspective.  Normally the most pressing question is how much pain will I cause myself and/or my loved ones to feel.  The answer to this question is simple, you are going to feel pain no matter what you decide.  Life's circumstances are beyond our control because God made eternal decisions a long time ago.  Thus having God's perspective is best when you are confronted with major decisions.

Connecting with your purpose in life will give you the courage to live your dreams.  Your life may not be as public as Ted Haggard's yet the same controversy can exist.  My point is this, life is happening in spite of your choices.  Making a decision to participate in your purpose gives you the ability to be whole.  Living life according to God's purpose for your creation is fulfilling. It gives you a different perspective in the painful seasons of your life. 

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

WELCOME

Welcome to "Empowered Peace." This blog will be used to educate and edify readers about Spiritual Healthcare. I define "Spiritual" as what a person participates in that gives them a sense of wholeness or usefulness while they are living in the world. The circumstances of human life continually change. These uncontrolled manifestations create situations which threaten a person's sense of well being. Spiritual Healthcare attempts to alleviate stress and tension within a person while they are maneuvering their way through crisis and even the blessings of life.

Please feel free contact me at: chaplaindonna@empoweredpeace.org


Please join me in this journey of our human condition.
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