Living an Empowered life is difficult if not impossible when you are being stalked. Stalking is becoming increasingly technical and scary! I have been the victim of a sophisticated stalker. They hacked my computer and used more traditional means of harassing me and knowing my personal information. It is extremely difficult if not impossible to catch these people. When I had a key-logger found on my computer, it seemed the perpetrator had more rights than me. My bank refused to give the ip address of the hacker that looked at my account. The police and Microsoft said that what was happening to me was highly unlikely!
It was a helpless feeling! The latest run in with this stalker took place in copying my wardrobe and hairstyles. My stalker knew what clothes I was wearing and changed their hair to look like mine. It was such a creepy feeling and I could not figure out how they knew my every move. They knew my conversations and daily activities. It was very painful when people took the side of my stalker and believed I was imitating them. This is the lie my stalker told and I did not have any way to defend myself. It was humiliating and cost me my job.
I have just discovered a highly likely way they stalked me. Not only did they hack my computer, but I believe they tapped my cell phone. Take a look at these videos (if you are reading this post via e-mail, you may have to go directly to the website to see these videos www.empoweredpeace.org)
I was completely oblivious to this type of technology. Your privacy is always at risk! It seems that honest people do not think about these things. The bad guys who prey upon us are educated in these areas.
In my situation the thing that amazed me the most...other people helped my stalkers. Either they were manipulated into participating, they were told false information to make them think I was worth harassing or they were corrupt. I can not imagine what would make a person help someone harm another. Blackmail? I guess the message is, your privacy is not your own and people will help your stalker.
I have not yet been able to convict my stalker. For a long time I was afraid to say anything. I thought people would not believe me. I thought they would think I was crazy. Now I do not care what people think. I tell people that I may be being stalked or I share my past experience when I think it is necessary. My stalker targeted my professional life. It sucks to have your lively hood jeopardized. I have a family to support and my income seems to be in the hands of someone that hates me.
I continue to find ways to take my life back but it is very difficult. For all I know they are still watching me and reading this post as I prepare it for you. I pray that the situation is over and my stalker has stopped following me of their own free will. If not and evidence of their illegal behavior arises again, I will not be as intimidated.
The latest story in the news is a man that will possibly be convicted for reading his wife's emails. If he is prosecuted it could mean a lot for victims of Internet crimes. I encourage you to report activities to authorities and get the services of a private investigator. I did not do all of things I am suggesting to you because I was ignorant and intimidated. This is how the stalker wins. The more Empowered you become, the less you fear the abuser, the more capable you are of fighting back!
photos via: worldvillage.com and blackberrysync.com via google images.
Thursday, December 30, 2010
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